Zum Thema Liebesglück ... I have it cut short and will also deepen the topic really is not here, but right now I'm thinking about how to change on partner search and partner acceptance, you get older. With
16/17/18 years, look for the perfect type. He must have blonde curly hair, wear the right shoes and hang out with the cool guys. Later you will loose, making compromises, is relatively modest - and notes that the computer with the hairless nice smile and the asshole behavior is not the right choice.
So what is Mr Right? How much compromise you have to go? How much heart he has to rush dream man have?
cren knows exactly what he does not want any more. The search for the perfect woman, who did not repeat a mistake of any predecessor.
I thought in the spring, just the type I had found. The right books, the right films, perfect hair, the right relationship to family, friends, ex-girlfriends.
As can be fooled - and how painful can do a dream men.
I try it the other way around now:
I do not look for the apparent 100%-Mann, sondern gehe ein paar Risiken ein. So gibt es Kompromisse, Reibungspunkte, Diskussionen ... aber auch ganz viel unverhofftes Glück. Ich seh über alles Mögliche hinweg, solange das Wesentliche stimmt. Und vielleicht habe ich so, zehn Jahre nach meiner ersten Beziehung, nochmal die Chance mit einem Mann, der meinem ersten Freund sehr ähnlich ist, die Fehler, die ICH damals gemacht habe wieder gutzumachen. Vielleicht geht es ja diesmal gut aus.